Understanding the Story That Shaped You
Story Work & Self-Understanding
Story work is the disciplined practice of understanding how the stories and experiences that precede us continue to shape who we are.
Long before we chose our work, our commitments, or our communities, we were shaped by family systems, migrations, faith traditions, silences, ruptures, and resilience. Much of that shaping remains unnamed — and therefore unexamined.
Through narrative inquiry, genealogical research, and guided reflection, I help individuals and families explore the stories that formed them — not simply to collect names and dates, but to understand the patterns that continue to shape how we live, lead, and see the world.
This is not nostalgia.
It is orientation — understanding how the past continues to shape the choices we face now.
Where this work begins
For many people, the work begins with the lives closest to them: parents and grandparents. The decisions they made. The migrations they undertook. The faith commitments they carried. The silences, losses, and adaptations that shaped family life.
These stories are not distant history. They continue to influence how we see ourselves and how we move through the world.
As we follow those threads further back, earlier generations come into view — shaped by land, economic pressure, belief, conflict, opportunity, and constraint. Families unfold within larger historical forces.
When we take those forces seriously, our ancestors become more than simplified stories or inherited myths. They become human beings navigating complexity.
And in their complexity, we often begin to recognize ourselves.
What this work involves
Story work can take many forms depending on the questions a person or family brings. My work may include:
Tracing formative patterns across generations
Exploring how migration, faith commitments, conflict, adaptation, and rupture shaped a family’s identity over time.
Situating lives within historical context
Understanding the political, economic, and cultural realities that framed the decisions earlier generations faced.
Genealogical and archival research
Working carefully with primary sources to reconstruct family stories beneath inherited memory.
Narrative reconstruction
Shaping stories that hold complexity — resilience alongside compromise, conviction alongside constraint.
Guided reflective conversations
Working with individuals who want to understand how inherited narratives shape their present identity, leadership, and sense of responsibility.
Looking honestly at the past
Many people hesitate to look closely at their family history.
Sometimes the past feels distant or incomplete. Sometimes it feels complicated. Sometimes it carries more weight than we know what to do with.
Serious story work does not promise a cleaner past. It offers a more honest one.
When we are willing to look carefully — without romanticizing or condemning — something steadies. We gain context. We gain proportion. We begin to see how our present has been shaped by the generations before us.
We begin to carry our history more consciously.
Begin with curiosity
This work begins simply with curiosity.
If you would like to explore the story that shaped you — not to perfect it, but to understand it — I would welcome a conversation.
How did you get here?
Let’s explore together.
Meet the Team
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Monet Goode
FOUNDER
With a vision for building something meaningful, our founder brings a blend of big-picture thinking and hands-on experience.
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Emmett Marsh
SALES MANAGER
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Eleanor Parks
MARKETING DIRECTOR
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Karl Holland
CUSTOMER SERVICE MANAGER
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